I hope you don't mind if i add you as my friend,

Nope, I don't mind at all - one of my favorite things about livejournal is that it allows people to go and friend based on interests and get to know other people.

which is sad
Yes, it is very sad - I have one real life friend who reads slash, but no one else... which is too bad... they just don't understand the boylove. ;)